{"id":460,"date":"2009-12-20T13:03:21","date_gmt":"2009-12-20T18:03:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.excellenceuniversity.net\/journal\/?p=460"},"modified":"2016-01-07T14:01:03","modified_gmt":"2016-01-07T19:01:03","slug":"execution-tip-think-about-your-motivation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.excellenceuniversity.net\/journal\/460\/execution-tip-think-about-your-motivation","title":{"rendered":"STEAM Tip: Motivation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Motivation is to humans what an engine is to a car; if the engine is not operating well, the car will not get where it needs to go as efficiently as it could and may waste a lot of energy (and create long-term damage to the car) along the way.\u00a0 If there are any goals\u00a0 that you are struggling to complete on time or at high levels of quality, you may benefit from a &#8220;motivation tune-up&#8221; from time to time.\u00a0 Here are some things to consider as you look under the hood to check out the engine that drives what you do.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Think about how strongly related certain activities are to your most meaningful goals and objectives in life.\u00a0<\/strong> If certain activities are not strongly related to outcomes you truly and deeply value (e.g., enjoying life, being a great parent, doing meaningful work), you may wish to think about methods of decreasing the frequency (do it monthly instead of weekly), intensity (do it at 1\/2 the effort) or duration (spend 1\/2 the time on it) of the these activities.\u00a0 Or, you may wish to think about ways to delegate or delete the activities from your life completely.\u00a0 Can someone else beside you complete certain activities?\u00a0 Can you survive without engaging at all in certain activities?\u00a0 Some of the most common activities that people have told me that they want to delete from their lives include worrying about things they have no control over, complaining without action, gossiping, and over-planning.\u00a0 To improve your engine&#8217;s performance, you may wish to create a list of activities that you would like to delegate to others and a list of activities that you would like to stop performing as often as you do.\u00a0 (NOTE: To those who have completed Phase I of the STEAM Training Manual, you may wish to review the\u00a0 &#8220;Living Your Priorities&#8221; exercise and use the activities that you identified as non-critical to help you with this list).<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Pay attention to your CAR: Boost intrinsic motivation for activities that are strongly related to your most meaningful goals and objectives.\u00a0<\/strong> For activities that you would like to continue to engage in, here is some more motivation-related information\u00a0 to consider: Two renowned researchers (Drs. Edward Deci and Richard Ryan) have found a link between intrinsic motivation and our perception of (a) competence, (b) autonomy, and (c) relatedness.\u00a0 The more one has of these three factors in relation to an activity, the more likely it is that one will regularly feel motivated to engage in that activity.\u00a0 Here are some thoughts on how to increase your competence, autonomy, and relatedness (or &#8220;CAR&#8221;) for activities that you would like to experience more motivation for:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em><strong>Competence.<\/strong><\/em> Competence can be facilitated by engaging in activities that challenge you, but do not overwhelm you.\u00a0 If you find yourself overwhelmed while engaged in (or even while thinking about) an activity, you may wish to engage in a less challenging form of the activity in question until you feel more competent.\u00a0 Once the less challenging activity becomes easy or routine for you, you can take on a more challenging form of the activity.\u00a0 For example, if an hour-long speech on methods of increasing motivation in front of 1,ooo people seems like too much for you, you may wish to engage in a short five-minute talk on one way to increase motivation in front of five friends until you have more competence in relation to this activity.\u00a0 You can then move up to 20-minute talks in front of 10 friends and 10 strangers until this becomes easier for you, then continue to increase the length, amount of content, and number of audience members until you are very comfortable with multiple hour-long talks in front of many hundreds of people on a variety of different topics.<\/li>\n<li><strong><em>Autonomy<\/em>. <\/strong>The experience of autonomy can be cultivated by giving yourself as many choices as possible.\u00a0 If you are feeling &#8220;locked in&#8221; to certain activities, goal-set in ways that provide you with more freedom.\u00a0 For example, if you goal-set to run 5 miles every week, you may wish to increase autonomy by goal-setting to run, bike, or swim every week.\u00a0 That way, you have provided yourself with more choice regarding your weekly fitness-related goals.<\/li>\n<li><em><strong>Relatedness.<\/strong><\/em> Relatedness can be enhanced by surrounding yourself with people who have similar goals and\/or by selecting goals that are related to your most important objectives in life.\u00a0 If your goals connect you to important others in your life and\/or are related to objectives that really matter to you, you are more likely to feel intrinsically motivated to achieve them.\u00a0 You may wish to set more goals that are related to objectives that are truly meaningful to you and seek out people who will support your goal and\/or will pursue that goal with you.\u00a0 For example, if you believe that the world needs more outstanding leaders and you want to become such a leader, you may wish to spend more time with people who (a) you feel will genuinely support you in this endeavor, (b) believe that better leadership is needed in the world, and (c) are interested in sharpening their own leadership skills.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>3. When autonomy is limited, work to increase relatedness.\u00a0<\/strong> As mentioned above, working to reduce time spent in activities that we do not perceive to be strongly aligned with our primary objectives in life is a great way to increase motivation.\u00a0 However, most of us will experience times when we are required to do something that we would rather not do (for example, take a training or a course that we do not believe to be powerfully aligned with our objectives in life) in order to attain something we want (for example, to keep our jobs or attain a degree).\u00a0 When autonomy is limited in this way, it can be helpful to work to increase relatedness.\u00a0 Instead of thinking something like this: &#8220;Why do I have to take this training\/course?&#8221; you can ask a question that is more helpful to your motivation like this: &#8220;How can I find ways to relate this required training\/course to my primary objectives in life?&#8221;\u00a0 For example, if you are required to take a training on customer service or a course in psychology, but you are only interested in computer programming, you can think about how to use the material covered in these classes to help you in other important areas of your life (how certain customer service practices can help you improve relationships with your friends, how the psychology course might help you to become more motivated to work out more frequently, how your presence in classes might lead to meeting new friends or helpful business connections).\u00a0 When autonomy is limited, motivation for required activities can be improved by regularly seeking ways to boost relatedness by constantly searching for ways that the required activities can relate to our most important goals and objectives in life.<\/p>\n<p>If you believe that more motivation for certain activities could be helpful to the accomplishment of certain goals, you may wish to keep this article in mind while goal-setting.\u00a0 For example, the goal \u201cComplete the report and presentation that Frank and I have been assigned for next month\u201d could be broken down into goals that fire up one&#8217;s motivation engine like these: (a) \u201cStop worrisome thoughts about the project whenever I become aware of them and re-focus my mind on what needs to be done,\u201d (b) &#8220;Delegate research to Frank (because he loves research and I do not),&#8221; (c) &#8220;Practice presenting Frank&#8217;s research (because I love presenting and Frank does not), and (d) &#8220;Find a group of people who are deeply invested in improving presentation skills and\/or promoting motivation in others and practice with them daily (starting with 10-minute segments until we feel competent enough to lengthen the presentation).&#8221;\u00a0 Goal-setting with your &#8220;motivation engine&#8221; in mind will help ensure that you will keep your motor running for the most important goals and objectives in your life, while avoiding the all-too-common motivation break-downs associated with failing to attend to this important component of success and satisfaction.<\/p>\n<p><strong>FINAL NOTE:<\/strong> If you were linked to this article by a video or email, please return to that link and proceed with any other instructions that you deem helpful.\u00a0 If you are using the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.excellenceuniversity.net\/tracking_execution.php\" target=\"_blank\">Mission Fulfillment System<\/a> to identify and track goal achievement, please keep this article in mind when you develop and\/or modify your goals on the system.\u00a0 For more articles related to improving STEAM, see our <a href=\"http:\/\/www.excellenceuniversity.net\/journal\/category\/personal-effectiveness\/self-mastery-tips\" target=\"_blank\">Self-Mastery<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.excellenceuniversity.net\/journal\/category\/personal-effectiveness\/interpersonal-expertise\" target=\"_blank\">Interpersonal Expertise<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.excellenceuniversity.net\/journal\/category\/personal-effectiveness\/mission-connection-tips\" target=\"_blank\">Mission Connection<\/a> tips.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Motivation is to humans what an engine is to a car; 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